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November 7, 2025
What Parents Should Know About Diagnostic Testing
Finding the right diagnostic psychologist can be one of the most important steps you take to support your child’s emotional, behavioral, or learning needs. Whether you’re seeking an ADHD evaluation, dyslexia assessment, or learning disabilities testing, you want to be sure that the professional you choose is ethical, qualified, and genuinely cares about your child’s well-being.
Here are ten signs that the psychologist assessing your child is the real deal.
- They Have Proper Credentials and Child-Specific Training
A diagnostic psychologist should have education and a degree in school psychology or clinical psychology, be licensed in your state, and have specialized training in child development, learning disorders, and psychological assessment. They’ll gladly explain their credentials and encourage you to verify their license—transparency is a good sign.
- They Explain the Testing Process Clearly
Before any testing begins, a psychologist should walk you through the entire process—what tests will be used, what they measure, and what the results can (and can’t) tell you. You’ll never feel rushed or confused about what’s happening.
- They Use Evidence-Based, Reliable Tests
A qualified psychologist uses standardized, research-backed assessment tools rather than unproven or outdated methods. They select tests carefully based on your child’s age, background, and unique needs.
- They See Beyond Test Scores
A psychologist understands that numbers don’t tell the whole story. They look at your child’s strengths, emotions, family dynamics, and school environment. They gather information from parents, teachers, and their observations of your child to get a full picture.
- They Communicate with Empathy and Respect
Testing can feel intimidating for both children and parents. A psychologist builds trust with warmth and patience, explaining things in age-appropriate language and helping your child feel safe and understood throughout the process.
- They Are Honest About What Testing Can—and Can’t—Reveal
Ethical psychologists are clear about the limitations of diagnostic testing. They won’t promise instant solutions or overstate what results mean. Instead, they help you interpret findings realistically and compassionately.
- They Provide a Thorough Report
After testing, you should receive a detailed, well-organized report that clearly explains results, diagnoses (if any), and next steps. A psychologist should take time to go over this report with you, answering your questions until you feel confident and informed.
- They Offer Practical, Personalized Recommendations
The best testing doesn’t stop at diagnosis—it leads to action. A thoughtful psychologist gives specific, useful recommendations you can apply at home, at school, and in therapy. They tailor strategies to fit your whole child’s needs not just their test scores.
- They Collaborate with Your Child’s Support Team
A genuine professional values teamwork. With your consent, they will share their report with teachers, pediatricians, and other specialists to ensure your child receives consistent, coordinated care. They see themselves as part of your child’s support network.
- They Prioritize Your Child’s Emotional Safety
Most importantly, a psychologist’s goal is to help your child thrive—not just to assign a label. They conduct assessments with compassion and integrity, ensuring your child feels respected every step of the way.
Guest Blogger Deborah Gilbert, Ph.D. is a Clinical Psychologist at Springer Diagnostic Center.
